Means 'favour of the people' from the Slavic elements 'lud' - 'people' and 'mil' 'favour, grace'. This was the name of character in Aleksandr Pushkin's poem 'Ruslan and Ludmila'.
Ludmila must feel that her partner is intellectually stimulating; otherwise she will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. She requires loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that she is being appreciated.